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5 Priorities When Your Divorce Becomes Final

by Strategic Divorce Planning

FINALLY! After an emotional roller coaster, you get that 8 ½ by 11 manila envelope with your divorce decree signed by the judge. You are officially a single person once again. You may mourn on that day, or celebrate, but stay focused, you’re not quite done yet. There are some critical items that you want to take care of right away.

Review Your Decree

First, make sure you fully understand what is in that envelope and what has been awarded to you. There’s a good chance that you now need to have a QDRO prepared to split a retirement plan. Don’t delay! Get that going now to ensure a timely split of the account. Now is a great time to sit down with a financial advisor Andrea B McGrath, CFP®,CDFA® to map out your new financial plan, open any new accounts necessary and consolidate any old ones.

Review All Accounts

Be sure to remove your ex-spouse’s name from any existing accounts including utilities, banks, insurance policies, credit cards, etc. If you don’t already have one, get a credit card in your name alone.  Now is the time to establish your own financial identity.

Get Organized

If you’ve never had one, create a filing system for all of your important financial documents as well as any statements that need to be retained for taxes. If you’re tech savvy, this might be 100% electronic but it needs to exist.

Review Estate Docs

Be sure to update all your beneficiaries on accounts and insurance policies immediately. I could tell you nightmare stories of ex spouse’s inheriting huge 401(k) plans because someone forgot to update the beneficiaries.

Write a New Will

Everything has changed. Be sure your new wishes are clear so there is no confusion. If you had any trusts in place, you’ll need to have them terminated and create new ones.

I remember when I got my final decree in the mail. It felt like a new beginning. I did cry a little for the old life, just a little, but I felt my heart swell a little in anticipation of the new one. Now, years down the road, I’m convinced that my divorce was one of the biggest blessings of my life. The change allowed me to become a much happier, healthier, and well-rounded person. The business side of things isn’t tons of fun, but with each step you’ll feel your new independence and identity sinking in and it will all help you to heal.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Make it count!

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